Pete, lets not fall out. I'm not having a go at your playing at all, hence the smiley face
which I deliberately put in to try and show I was joking. (I don't really like smilies much).
I'm not expressing myself very clearly.
I think you need to try ornamentation combined with listening. As you learn the ornaments you put them in, throw them in even, until they begin to feel natural. If you are listening plenty you will find a place to put them that sounds right.
Once you have learnt to play, you can only play like yourself. No one else can play like you and try all you like you won't play like anyone else either. A lot of it is in the ornamentation. A lot but not all.
a wise man once told me, Either do or do not. There is no try. Can't remember where I met him.
edit to say I'm far too shy to put up any of my playing at the moment. But I think you are right to prompt me. I'll have to give it some thought. Last thing I put up was horrible!
Finally feel like I'm getting somewhere. It's only taken 6 years.